Did RHONY's Ubah overreact when Erin stole her phone? Fans are sounding off
RHONY's Ubah and Erin had a phone-related spat during this week's episode but was it justified? Fans react.
Erin and Jessel have been feuding for weeks, but now RHONY's Ubah is entering the ring. On the Sunday, September 17, episode of The Real Housewives of New York City season 14, Ubah Hassan kicked off a prank war with Erin Lichy while the women were in Anguilla on a girls' vacation, throwing Erin in the pool of their villa.
The next day, Erin is gung-ho to return the favor ("I know that I'm not leaving this trip without this weave getting in the water. Listen, I started it!" Ubah reasons), but she decides to steal Ubah's cell phone first, unbeknownst to her costar. And it's a good thing, too, because Sai ends up being the one to shove Ubah into the pool.
"It's not payback that Ubah's in the pool because I didn't push her in," Erin says. "But that's okay because I have her phone, so I have another prank going."
However, Ubah very much does not find the phone prank funny. After looking for her phone throughout the villa at midnight with Jessel, she comes down fuming to breakfast the next day. "I am so pissed. Did you know Erin had my phone and didn't tell me?" she complains to Sai.
"Of course, I would want to know where my phone is... I wouldn't have dwelled on it the way she dwelled on it but I understand it," Sai said in a confessional.
Later, Sai gives Erin a heads-up about Ubah: "Oh, she's so f***ing mad at you... I would be mad at you too. For taking my phone and not knowing where it was?" To which Erin proclaims, "It was a prank!" and adds that she only had the phone for 45 minutes.
At breakfast, Ubah pointedly ignores Erin and only greets Brynn at the table. "It feels actually very mean, it feels really mean," Erin says, later telling Brynn she's annoyed Ubah is turning it into a bigger thing than a mere prank. "How am I supposed to know she's so crazy about her phone?"
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Ubah continues to ice Erin out while the women get ready to go on an excursion. However, she does ask where Erin is when the group is about to leave the villa, which Erin mistakenly believes is Ubah gossiping about her to the other women.
"Stop saying my name when I'm not around," Erin tells Ubah, which sets the latter housewife off.
"Take these glasses off when you're talking to me, first of all," Ubah yells at her, snatching the sunglasses straight off Erin's face. "You had my f***ing phone. You had my phone, why did you have my phone?" The argument escalates until we see a "To Be Continued" marker before the credits roll.
Did Ubah from RHONY overreact about her phone? Fans react
So, do you think Ubah unnecessarily escalated the situation or was she justified in her annoyance with Erin? RHONY fans are sounding off on social media:
Did Ubah go overboard, possibly but honestly it's Erin, she's kind of annoying so I don't have that much problem with it. Lol Yeah and Sai sucks too, also you gotta watch out fir Brynn, she's kind of a flip flopper #rhonySeptember 18, 2023
Ubah shouldn’t have snatched her glasses! Maybe that’s the only thing she did wrong! But I’m here for activated Ubah! #RHONYSeptember 18, 2023
I would pissed if someone took my phone #RHONYSeptember 18, 2023
I understand Uhab being upset. However, she is WAY too mad for a prank that went an hour, and most of the time, she didn't even know it was missing! Erin should have apologized right away. You don't snatch anyones sunglasses off their face. That is NEVER acceptable. #RHONYSeptember 18, 2023
Sorry not sorry. But Erin had this confrontation coming! To begin telling Ubah she shouldn’t be saying her name without her present. Tell not yell at her. Ohhhh baby! Erin getting taste of her own medicine and it’s amazing #RHONY pic.twitter.com/5IE7pyacdDSeptember 18, 2023
Ubah, ma'am, I get it but you didn't have to snatched that lady glasses off like that. #RHONY pic.twitter.com/PPBfPADmwcSeptember 18, 2023
Can i just say….one thing annoying me about this disregard for Ubah and the phone…especially from Karamo..Ubah is a single black woman traveling outside of the country. Are we going to act like checking in with family isn’t a concern? #RHONYSeptember 18, 2023
Ubah grabbing Erin’s sunglasses off her face is not okay. If your mad about the phone then talk to Erin about it instead of being immature and snatching her glasses. Just ridiculous! #RHONY pic.twitter.com/1LRWPmt2qxSeptember 18, 2023
Let’s clarify: Maybe Ubah overreacted to the phone thing. But she didn’t initially come at Erin - she was ignoring Erin and not ruining the day. Erin got pissy b/c she was being ignored and came at Ubah about saying her name (??). Erin has no high ground here. #RHONY #WWHLSeptember 18, 2023
As a kid my cousins got me to understand early on, don't prank someone because you have no clue what prank will come back at you. Ubah get over yourself, don't start none won't be none #RHONYSeptember 18, 2023
I hate losing things, it causes me to breakdown every time so to have someone hide something from you and they see that you’re in distress about it and don’t end the joke and apologize… #RHONYSeptember 18, 2023
Ubah freaking out over her phone for 45 minutes is ridiculous #ubah @rhony pic.twitter.com/afEN9yLpP4September 18, 2023
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